Posts tagged Habits
How to Step into the Light
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At the last Impact meeting we started our series Defeating Darkness. To start this off we went through 1 John 1:5-10, which says the following:

5 This is the message we have heard from him and proclaim to you, that God is light, and in him is no darkness at all. 6 If we say we have fellowship with him while we walk in darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth. 7 But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus his Son cleanses us from all sin. 8 If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. 9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 10 If we say we have not sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us.

When looking to apply this to our lives a few things stood out to me.
First, we need to be accountable. In our own lives there are things that we are trying to do in our walk with God, whether it be being consistent with reading the Bible or a sin we are trying to stop. But as humans, and I know this is something that I struggle with personally, is asking a fellow believer for help. As Christians we are all trying to serve God to our best abilities, but we end up trying to do it ourselves. I found myself asking, “why am I trying to do this myself?” I have God to help and I have fellow Christians to keep me accountable.

Going along with being accountable, we need to also make it a habit to confess our sins. Doing this will make it harder for us to dwell on them and make it easy to break those bad habits. Andrew made a good point in his last message about how we need to confess our sins out loud. We need to actually say them out loud and be specific about them. Doing this takes those sins that we hide from others and hide within ourselves and brings them into the light. This is something that is really hard for me to do but is something that really helped me break old habits. Knowing that I would have to confess verbally what I did forced me to break old habits and replace them with habits that pleased God.

When confessing our sins, we need to confess them to other Christians that we trust enough that we can be completely honest with them. Doing this will give us someone else that can keep us accountable. We also need to confess our sins to God, we are doing this all for him. Verse nine says that if we confess our sins he WILL forgive us. We have to actively confess our sins, this is not something that we can be passive about.

Another thing that we need to do, myself included, is to not make reading God's word an afterthought. I personally find myself waking up and going through YouTube, Netflix, Snapchat, and other apps before I open up my Bible to read Gods word. We need to make this something that we want to do, not something that we do just to check a box and say that we did it. In my personal experience I find that having someone that can keep me accountable helps tremendously.

Fourth and finally we need to pray. We live our lives for God, so why would we not want to talk to him? He is there for us constantly, with the best advice. When he have a hard time or a problem we go to a friend or family member before we talk to God. Why is this?

No matter what we do, God will forgive us, and he always there to talk to.

Andrew Caes, Freshman at IUPUI

Habits That Will Lead to Success in College, pt. 2
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In my first post that was published on March 26, I explained how making organization a priority and finding a support group will help you reach your goals in college. I’ll now describe two more habits that have helped me succeed not only in this semester but throughout my entire time in college.   

(3) Persevere through hardships

And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose. (Romans 8:28)

In the past five years or so, I’ve come to realize Romans 8 is one of the most profound chapters of the Bible. After Paul gives both a beautiful description of what will happen to the cosmos at Jesus’ second coming and an explanation of how the Spirit intercedes for us, Paul shows us that everything that happens to us, whether it’s good or bad, ultimately happens for a good reason.

            Perhaps the most difficult subject for me during my years at Ivy Tech was mathematics. Even before I entered college, I knew that subject would probably be one of the greatest academic challenges I would face. When I took my first Intermediate Algebra class, I struggled to follow my professor’s explanations of all the problems we worked on. I stayed up in the early hours of the morning every week to work on the practice problems we were given. Yet my confusion remained. Even though my professor in that course told me I was his best student, probably because I was the only one who came to class every time we met, I failed that course and decided to tackle it again sometime in the future.

When I attempted to take that course a second time, the new professor I had was so cold and unapproachable I was afraid to ask him any questions. I struggled in that course as well, and to avoid getting another poor grade, I dropped it. By this time, I was extremely depressed. I feared I would never pass my math course, despite the fact that I had prayed to God again and again to help me.

When I had a meeting with the transfer advisor at Ivy Tech, she, to my frustration, told me Intermediate Algebra was no longer required, and I had to take a course called Finite Mathematics. In that course I, again, struggled to understand the mathematical concepts I was learning. This time I knew I had to make an effort to get as much help as I could. Thus, I went to the tutoring center. But I wasn't able to get the help I needed, and I dropped that course as well.

After several semesters of taking other courses, I made one last attempt to tackle Finite Mathematics. Before I took it, I kneeled to God in prayer and begged Him to help me succeed, and He responded.

The professor I had in this course streamlined the material we were learning because, as I had discovered myself, much of what we were studying in our math textbooks wasn’t even on our tests. This made the course material much easier to grasp. In addition, one of my younger brothers, who is much better at math than I am, was also taking this course, and he acted as my tutor throughout the semester.

My struggles in my math courses were God’s way of telling me that I needed to save mathematics for a later time in my life at Ivy Tech. By postponing my math course, I was able to take it at a time when an exceptional professor was teaching it and when my mathematically inclined brother was taking the same course at the same time I was. Even though it took me several years to pass my math course, by God’s grace, and with my brother and professor’s help, I was finally able to pass it.

(4) Remain faithful to God

 If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you, you will ask what you desire, and it shall be done for you. (John 15:7)

In this passage, Jesus, before He suffered His crucifixion, told His apostles that if they remained in Him and let His words live in them, they would be able to ask God for anything and they will receive it. Before I entered college, I knew I had to keep God in the forefront of my life. I knew that if I abandoned Him, He would abandon me, and I wouldn’t excel in my courses.

Yet even though I prayed to God every day, my academic struggles tempted me to think that God was indifferent to me. Why is God taking me down the road I’m going? What is God trying to teach me? Is He preparing me for a mission He wants me to fulfill in the future? These are questions I’ve asked myself for years, yet I still don’t have the answers.

Nevertheless, I didn’t let my inability to understand what God is doing in my life influence me to turn my back on Him. I continued to pray to Him. I continued to show Him how thankful I am to Him for saving me from my sins by assembling with His children to worship Him every Sunday. And I continued to study His captivating word. I believe that because I remained faithful to God in these ways God blessed me with success in most of my courses.

In conclusion, only you know what path God wants you to travel in college. Yet organizing yourself, seeking help and encouragement from a support group, enduring hardships, and staying loyal to God are just a few ways that will surely help you reach your destination at the end of that path.

Jacob Stubbs, Guest Writer, Student at IUPUI

Habits That Will Lead to Success in College, pt. 1
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I’m almost there. Praise God, I’m almost there! After years of reading textbooks, taking tests, writing essays, listening to lectures, talking with advisors, and interacting with students from all over the world, I’ll finally be able to experience the joy of graduating from college. It’s been a long journey. I began my part-time college education at Ivy Tech in the fall semester of 2007 and then transferred to IUPUI spring 2014. Through my years of schooling, I’ve developed simple strategies that have helped me excel in college, and I want to share four of them with you. I call these ‘habits’ because they’re actions you must get used to repeating in every course. 

In this first blog post, I’ll share two of them, and in my next post, I’ll share the other two. These habits, if developed, will not only help you perform well in your courses, but will also help you fulfill Impact’s mission of spreading God’s kingdom by pursuing God, modeling his teachings, and teaching others about His glory.

Habit #1: Make Organization a Priority

Let all things be done decently and in order. (1 Corinthians 14:40)

Though the above verse from the book of Corinthians is focusing on organization in Christian assemblies, one truth about God can be gleaned from it: God values order. God never works haphazardly. Even when human free will is factored into God’s providence, everything happens according to His divine will. God is organized, and because He made us in His image, He expects us to be organized as well.

There were several ways I got and remained organized throughout my time in college. I set up a consistent time to study. I found a place, usually my room or a break room at my job site, where I could study without much distraction. I tried to get most of my assignments done as early as I could. And whenever I was overwhelmed with a large number of assignments, I made detailed lists of tasks I needed to complete and followed that list closely.

As I did all of this, I balanced my part-time college life with a full-time evening job at the Eli Lilly Technology Center. I did this by choosing classes that took place in the mornings. To complete my assignments on time, I would devote at least three hours on days that I didn’t have class to completing the assignments I had to complete each week. On the weekends, I devoted Saturday mornings, sometimes Saturday evenings, and Sunday evenings to completing assignments. By organizing my life this way for the many years I’ve been in college, I’ve been able to excel in nearly all of my courses.

Habit #2: Find a support group

Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10)

This passage shows us the importance of having companions to help us through the difficulties of life. I can’t begin to explain the importance of having a support group in college. It’s nearly impossible to go through something as challenging as college alone. Just as the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit never accomplish anything on their own, so too will you never accomplish anything in college on your own. We have families, friends, and churches who can provide us with encouragement and advice. If, God forbid, we don’t have any of these, we have an entire campus of men and women who are eager to encourage, advise, and befriend us. Impact itself serves this purpose.

During my years in college, my family has served as my primary support group. Yet among all of my family members, my mother has been my greatest source of encouragement. From helping me realize that I shouldn’t compare myself to other students to simply listening to me talk about what goes on in my classes, she’s helped me remain optimistic through the most difficult courses I’ve had in college.

By making organization a priority, you will reflect God’s own orderliness and show your classmates that you value the education with which God is blessing you. By finding and interacting with a support group, especially one like Impact, you’ll reflect God’s triune character by reaching your goals not on your own but within a community. The light of Christ that you shine through your orderliness and through the strong friendships you have with your family, friends, church, or those on campus can be attractive to those who don’t share your faith. You can use the light they see in you to attract them to Christ.  

In my next post, I’ll discuss how persevering through hardships and remaining faithful to God are two other ways you can excel in college.

Jacob Stubbs, Guest Writer, IUPUI Student