Being Young and An Example

Day 292: 1 Timothy 4:1-16

“Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity.” - 1 Timothy‬ ‭4:12‬ ‭ESV‬‬

Being young and unproven is not a disadvantage; it’s an opportunity.

The word used in this verse for youth can describe anyone up to the age of 40. So many young people (under 40) say, “I can’t wait till I’m older and people take me more seriously.” In contrast, so many older people (over 40) say, “I wish I were younger. I need a do-over. I would use my energy differently (see verse 7).”

Donald Gutherie gives us some great insight into the words used in this verse:  The first two, speech and life (i.e., manner of life, or behaviour) apply to Timothy’s public life, while the other three are concerned with inner qualities (love, faith and purity) which nevertheless have a public manifestation.

Our public lives will always be driven by our private lives and not the other way around.  Young or old, let’s change how we use our time and energy. God only gives us so much. Once we use it, we aren’t getting it back.

One more thought. If you are young, your goal isn’t to prove yourself. Instead, your objective should be, like Timothy, to “save both yourself and your hearers.” All of this temporary life is in preparation for our eternal one.

May we not neglect our gifts. Instead, let’s use them for God’s glory.

Kathy GarnerComment
Who We Are at Home

Day 291: 1 Timothy 3:1-16

“He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive, for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God’s church? ... Let deacons each be the husband of one wife, managing their children and their own households well.” - ‭‭1 Timothy‬ ‭3:4-5, 12‬ ‭ESV‬‬

Amid all these qualifications for elders and deacons (lead servants of the church), we see these descriptions of their home lives toward the end of each list.

A real test of any leader is how they treat their family and what they act like in their safest space. Do we treat everyone at work and school with kindness but disrespect the ones who seemingly are “stuck with us?”

The word for manage is proistēmi, and Jesus used a version of this word when he said in Luke 22:26: “Let the greatest among you become as the youngest, and the leader as one who serves.”

So to manage your family is to serve them. It is to guide them to Jesus with your words and your life. No days off. No excuses.

Have you not been given a good example of this at home or in the church? We need you to set a new legacy for future generations. It is time for us to set a standard for what it looks like to humbly serve our Lord Jesus Christ.

May we be the kind of leaders that others actually want to follow.

Kathy GarnerComment
Women as Silent (or Not)

Day 290: 1 Timothy 2:1-15

“I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet.” - 1 Timothy 2:12 ESV

I was in one of our Life Groups a few years back and heard one of our female students say, "I don't like this" when reacting to this passage. I have to agree with her. When I only look at the words on the page (without context), it bothers me as well.

Is the local church supposed to have a hard patriarchy where the women are second-class members? This was certainly true in first-century Jewish and Greek culture. William Barclay wrote, "The respectable Greek woman led a very confined life. She lived in her own quarters into which no one but her husband came. She did not even appear at meals."

In light of Galatians 3:28 (check it out), we can't imagine this is what Paul had in mind when he said "quiet." There has to be something more cultural (not intercultural) happening in the local context as we read this 1 Timothy passage.

From Phoebe (Romans 16:1-2) to Philip's four daughters (Acts 21:9) to Junia the missionary (Romans 16:7) to Priscilla who helped teach Apollos (Acts 18:26) to Mary, the mother of Jesus (Luke 1:46-55) to Mary Magdalene (John 20:11-18) -- we see that women were not silent. We have been the better for it. Paul, in another place, gives instructions on how women were supposed to prophesy in the church services (see 1 Corinthians 11:5).

Everyone in the body of Christ has a role to play (Ephesians 4:16). This does not undermine the role of men in the church. On the contrary, when women live their lives in faith, love, holiness, and self-control, everyone in the church benefits (I pray these four over my daughter every day).

So this passage doesn't oppress women; it instead gives them a seat at the table.

Men are still supposed to be the lead servants in the marriage relationship (see Ephesians 5:21-33) and in local church leadership (see our reading for tomorrow), but we are equal in value, both in the church, our homes and even in culture.

Kathy GarnerComment
A Good Conscience

Day 289: 1 Timothy 1:1-20

“The aim of our charge is love that issues from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith.” - ‭‭1 Timothy‬ ‭1:5‬ ‭ESV‬‬

Paul starts this first letter to his protege, Timothy, in the most interesting way. He warns him of false teachers and how he should not get sucked into their arguments. The goal of his command was not to win a fight. Instead, the objective was love.

One of the words that will keep coming up in 1 Timothy is the word conscience (used 4X). Paul includes it here in between a pure heart and a sincere faith. It is important!

Eugene Nida defines conscience (syneidēsis) as the psychological faculty which can distinguish between right and wrong.

I cannot think of a more relevant word for our world today and what we see missing so often. So many people do not know the difference between right and wrong. They make our conscience something subjective to our circumstances, feelings, and opinions of others. I mean, all you have to do is compare the list Paul gives in verses 9-10.

Yet God created our conscience to help us know right from wrong, and the Holy Spirit heightens this sensitivity (see John 16:8). This gives us the definition of what truth sounds like.

Felt convicted lately? Don’t dismiss it. Instead, confess it. Our walking in freedom from sin is what motivated Jesus to die on the cross.

Kathy GarnerComment
Work to Eat

Day 288: 2 Thessalonians 3:1-18

“Even while we were with you, we gave you this rule: Whoever does not work should not eat either." - 2 Thessalonians 3:10 NASB

”Labour is the law of God; idleness is the parent of many crimes and is productive of misery.” - H.D.M. Spence

Much is said in the local church (and in the New Testament) about not relying on our own working but on the working of God. This is true for our salvation. Look no further than Galatians 2:20.

Yet here we see that the Thessalonian church had a rampant problem of idleness. The economy at this time was to the point where those with a skill or trade were forced to become day laborers to make ends meet. It is likely that some were free-loading off others in the church to avoid common, hard work. We saw in 1-2 Corinthians this was not something Paul avoided. He often spent time as a common tent-making day laborer (see Acts 18:3).

This may lead us to this question: "What work would we be unwilling to do to ensure that we, and our families, will be provided for?"

Any kind of work will take a great amount of humility and grit to carry it out consistently, even if we are doing something that we love. May we, as Christians, be known as the hardest-working people around. May we be known for our tenacity, honesty, and reliability.

May what was said about Daniel be said of us:  “He was faithful, responsible, and completely trustworthy.” - Daniel 6:4 NLT

Kathy GarnerComment
Jesus Will Win

Day 287: 2 Thessalonians 2:1-17

“And then the lawless one will be revealed, whom the Lord Jesus will kill with the breath of his mouth and bring to nothing by the appearance of his coming.” - ‭‭2 Thessalonians‬ ‭2:8‬ ‭ESV‬‬

Much is said of this “man of lawlessness” or “Antichrist” in the book of Revelation. After reading the verse above (and all of our passage today), my mind went immediately to Revelation 19:11-21. The scene is set and pictures Jesus riding on a white horse, exalted in power. His blood-drenched robe is leaving a trail of white (see verse 14). Jesus even seems to have a tattoo to remind us of who He is (see verse 16).

The battle is set. Armies face off against Jesus. Yet the clash is over before it begins and ends with the Beast and the False Prophet being tossed into the lake of fire.

Jesus never loses.

The Antichrist will be a very convincing counterfeit at the end of time. He will lead many away from faith in Jesus. Yet all King Jesus needs are His words to win a great victory.

False gospels always feed on panic (fear) and will exalt individuals over the truth found in our Lord Jesus Christ.

Which are you following today?

“Christ will in the meantime, by the rays which he will emit previously to his advent, put to flight the darkness in which Antichrist will reign, just as the sun, before he is seen by us, chases away the darkness of the night by the pouring forth of his rays.” - John Calvin

Kathy GarnerComment
Away from God's Presence

Day 286: 1 Thessalonians 1:1-12

“They will suffer the punishment of eternal destruction, away from the presence of the Lord and from the glory of his might, when he comes on that day to be glorified in his saints, and to be marveled at among all who have believed...” - 2 Thessalonians‬ ‭1:9-10‬ ‭ESV

‬‬One of the goals Paul had at the start of this second letter was to show the end of those who were persecuting the Thessalonian church. The Christians were assured that God would bring justice and that their suffering was not going unnoticed.

In these two specific verses, we see the contrast of life after death between those who insist on going their own way (see Jeremiah 18:12) and those committed to following Jesus no matter what consequences follow on earth.

What is so terrifying about hell (a place initially prepared for the Devil and his angels. — Matthew 25:41)?  Endless punishment is enough to startle us, but the worst part is separation from God. All joy? Gone. All love? Gone. All hope? Gone.

In the end, everyone will want eternal life, but many will miss it due to their rejection of Jesus as their Lord and Savior. May this motivate us to keep sharing the Good News about Jesus crucified and risen for everyone who would choose to trust Him!

“Eternal destruction, then, is the opposite of eternal life.” - Ben Witherington III

Kathy GarnerComment
Ten Ways to Live as a Christian

Day 285: 1 Thessalonians 5:4-28

“And we urge you, brothers, admonish the idle, encourage the fainthearted, help the weak, be patient with them all.” - ‭‭1 Thessalonians‬ ‭5:14‬ ‭ESV‬‬

Paul ends his first letter to the Thessalonians with a barrage of short bursts of challenge (like Christian Proverbs). The commands in verses 12-18 are decisions we can make every day to live the best life possible. Though things will be challenging in this fallen world, neglecting these will make life even harder.

To name a few:

  1. Make sure those who serve the church (ministers) have their needs met.

  2. Live in peace with each other (as it depends on you: Romans 12:18).

  3. Warn the lazy (God expects us to work hard).

  4. Encourage the timid (God expects us to be bold).

  5. Take care of the weak (those often forgotten).

  6. Be patient with everyone (they all have stories).

  7. Do good to others (responding to evil with evil leads to chaos).

  8. Rejoice always (chairo: to enjoy a state of happiness; see Colossians 1:24)

  9. Pray continually (we will need it).

  10. Be thankful (healthiest perspective).

Are you ready to be obedient to Jesus and shine bright in this dark world? Does this list at the same time seem daunting? The solution for us seems to be in verse 23 of our reading: “May God himself, the God of peace, sanctify you through and through.”

God never gives us a to-do list that He doesn’t intend to help us check off. His Holy Spirit, within us, will not leave us swimming in impossibilities.

”Thank you, Jesus, for shedding your blood, enabling us to live like You.”

Kathy GarnerComment
The Lord Will Descend

Day 284: 1 Thessalonians 4:1-18, 5:1-3

“For the Lord himself will descend from heaven with a cry of command, with the voice of an archangel, and with the sound of the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise first. Then we who are alive, who are left, will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air, and so we will always be with the Lord. Therefore encourage one another with these words.” - ‭‭1 Thessalonians‬ ‭4:16-18‬ ‭ESV‬‬

Here we see echoes back to Daniel 7:13, 12:2. Stop reading this for a sec and check those verses out for a better understanding of Paul’s language.

I love what Leon Morris says about this passage: “There are many points on which we should like further information. But when Paul comes to that great fact that makes everything else unimportant, he stops. There is no need (and no more) to add to that.”

Six verses (13-17) do seem to be quite inadequate to describe the end of time as we know it and a grand reunion with those Christians who have died before us. Yet we have what we need here. We learn two important things from these verses: 1) We will be together. 2) We will be with Jesus.

On the flip side, in our reading today, Paul spends 4:1-11 talking about life until Jesus returns. The process of pleasing God is our prep for heaven. He tells us what to avoid, and he even gives us advice on how to work our professions. May we ready ourselves for Jesus’ return!

Elizabeth K. Mills (1805-1829) said it well in the hymn she penned:

O land of rest for thee I sigh!

When will the moment come

When I shall lay my armor by

And dwell in peace at home?

We’ll work till Jesus comes,

We’ll work till Jesus comes,

We’ll work till Jesus comes,

And we’ll be gathered home.

Kathy GarnerComment
Growing and Overflowing

Day 283: 1 Thessalonians 2:9-20, 3:1-13

“And may the Lord make your love grow and overflow to each other and everyone else, just as our love overflows for you.” - 1 Thessalonians 3:12 NLT

When we decide that we want to follow Jesus, one of the first things that God starts to work through with us is our love for others.

God’s desire is for our love toward each other to scale to the point of an overflow (excess).

The word Paul uses for grow is pleonazō, and it means to cause an increase. The word he uses for overflow is perisseuō, and it means to go beyond or more than enough.

Both words are associated with intensity. This means that God’s call to love will require us to be stretched. We know from this verse that it is God who will do the stretching. He will increase our capacity to care for others.

This language also suggests a process. None of us will overflow at the beginning, especially for someone who has wronged us. Before love can overflow, it has to grow. Start small with a prayer of forgiveness or an act of kindness.

This isn’t easy work, but it is necessary for our growth as followers of Jesus.

Ultimately, love will bring greater unity to the church and will become a bridge for more people to cross into the family of God by Jesus our Savior.

Kathy GarnerComment